With the advent of social media, communication nowadays can occur in an instant. But the spoken word is still stuck at a finite speed, and it takes a wide range of social, physical, and emotional abilities to connect with someone IRL (in real life). Despite the increased effort involved, studies have also found face-to-face communication to be the most rewarding way to communicate. So when communication breaks down between two people due to hearing loss, the relationship can quickly suffer.
Understanding Hearing Loss
From time to time, you may have become frustrated with a loved one, whether a spouse or a parent, who continually asks you to repeat what you’ve said. For a moment, consider how frustrated – not to mention emotionally distressed and devastated – they must feel with the gradual loss of their hearing.
Although hearing loss is common – affecting 48 million Americans – it does not have to result in a communication breakdown between you and the ones you love. Moreover, once you’ve recognized that your loved ones struggle with hearing loss, it is natural to want to offer your help and find solutions. This conversation could be challenging, which is why we’ve provided a guide for talking to your loved one about hearing loss.
How to encourage your loved one to address their hearing loss
Come with the facts
A quick internet search can yield a wealth of knowledge on hearing loss. On their website, the Hearing Loss Association of America provides tools and information about hearing loss, related issues, and statistics. You’ll be able to have an educated conversation with your loved one about the benefits of having a hearing test and seeking remedies for their hearing loss if you arm yourself with statistics and evidence.
Look for information on new technologies available for individuals experiencing hearing loss. These days, there are Bluetooth-compatible hearing aids that stream directly from smartphones! Even more, there are many testimonials online given by individuals who have experienced the benefits of treating hearing loss and have found solutions to improve the quality of their lives. You may even reference people you both know who have sought treatment for hearing loss.
Find a quiet place to talk
For people with hearing loss, speech recognition is a primary challenge. When you decide to talk to your loved one about hearing loss, schedule a quiet time and place to have this conversation. Furthermore, it is essential to speak from a place of compassion. It is challenging to converse with people with hearing loss (frustrations may arise from having to repeat yourself often), but keep in mind that your goal is to encourage your loved one to take an essential step toward bettering their hearing health.
Listen and ask open-ended questions
Once you’ve expressed your concerns, allow your loved one to speak. Try to listen without interrupting or interjecting. Though your loved one may be upset or in denial, give them the space to work through these feelings. Ask open-ended questions (as opposed to yes-or-no questions) to get more clarification on their experience thus far.
Focus on the benefits
The main goal is to encourage your loved one to take a hearing test. Hearing tests provide you with important information about your hearing abilities. They are the first step to treating hearing loss (if it is detected).
Share the research you’ve found on the benefits of treating hearing loss and make sure you are using positive language. Rather than focusing on the negative aspects of hearing loss, frame solutions in a positive light. For example, you might say, “Studies have shown that treating hearing loss improves communication and keeps people active with their friends and loved ones.” Just this simple framing is more encouraging.
Give a helping hand
Indeed, hearing loss is a difficult challenge to face. However, remind your loved ones that they are not alone. Reassure your loved ones that you are there to support them. You may want to offer to accompany your loved one to a hearing consultation as a first step.
Remind your loved one that treating hearing loss is an investment in their health and well-being, and that includes your relationship! Treating hearing loss means they will be better connected, once again, to you and others in your extended family and community. Our team is here to help. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and hearing test.